what you are most afraid of is where your greatest rewards are . if all you had to do was wish for something and you would have it , life would be pretty boring , wouldn’t it? barriers were placed between us and what we want , so we can enjoy interesting and satisfying lives . our biggest rewards are hidden behind the highest barriers - our deepest fears. we are supposed to face our fears , and hold ground in their presence , and let them go , and that’s how we get out biggest rewards . what are you most afraid of ? say i t, just start by saying it .